Love Actually Is Still All Around…21 Years Later!

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If you watch a lot of movies, you may have seen ‘Love Actually’, twenty-one years ago. The movie follows the lives of ten very different couples and characters, in dealing with their love lives, or lack of, in various loosely interrelated tales all set during a frantic month before Christmas in London, England. Some people hated the movie and others loved it. 

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Many of the holiday movies we consider classics or cult favorites today did not seem destined for such glory when they were launched to the public. Some we criticized. Others were flops. Others just weren’t particularly holiday-focused.

"Love Actually" is a romantic comedy that has become a beloved holiday classic for many, while at the same time drawing criticism from others since its release in 2003. Written and directed by Richard Curtis, who brought us such greats as “Four Weddings and a Funeral,” “Notting Hill” and “Bridget Jones’s Diary.” 

During the course of the film, we explore the complexities of love through multiple interconnected stories set in London happening about a month before Christmas. The film's overarching theme is that love is all around us, manifesting in various forms and situations, culminating in a series of revelations and resolutions on Christmas Eve.

Hugh Grant letting loose. Courtesy of IMDb

The movie opens with a voiceover from Hugh Grant's character, the newly elected British Prime Minister, reflecting on the arrivals gate at Heathrow Airport as a place where love is abundantly visible. This sets the tone for the film's exploration of love in its many forms.

Here’s an overall view of the theme and plot of this movie:

"Love Actually" is structured around the lives of various characters, each dealing with love in its different forms. The movie opens weeks before Christmas and counts down to the holiday, culminating in a series of revelations and resolutions on Christmas Eve. Here’s a brief overview of the main characters and storylines:

1. David and Natalie: David (Hugh Grant), is the newly elected Prime Minister, falls for Natalie (Martine McCutcheon), a junior member of his household staff.
2. Harry, Karen, and Mia: Harry (the late Alan Rickman) is a managing director who is tempted by his secretary, Mia (Heike Makatsch), causing strain in his marriage to Karen, play by (Emma Thompson).
3. Jamie and Aurélia: Jamie (Colin Firth), a writer, retreats to a French cottage after discovering his girlfriend's infidelity and forms a bond with Aurélia (Lúcia Moniz), his Portuguese housekeeper.
4. Daniel and Sam: Daniel (Liam Neeson) helps his stepson Sam (Thomas Sangster) deal with the loss of his mother and helps navigate his son’s first crush.
5. Juliet, Peter, and Mark: Juliet (Keira Knightley) discovers that her husband Peter’s (Chiwetel Ejiofor) best friend Mark (Andrew Lincoln) is secretly in love with her.
6. Billy Mack and Joe: Aging rock star Billy Mack (Bill Nighy) promotes his Christmas single with the help of his loyal manager, Joe (Gregor Fisher).
7. Sarah and Karl: Sarah (Laura Linney) has a long-standing crush on her colleague Karl (Rodrigo Santoro), but her personal responsibilities prevent her from pursuing a relationship.
8. John and Judy: John (Martin Freeman) and Judy (Joanna Page) are body doubles for film sex scenes who fall in love off-camera.
9. Colin Frissell: Colin (Kris Marshall) believes his lack of success with women in Britain is due to cultural differences and flies across the pond to America to find true love.
10. Rufus: Rufus (Rowan Atkinson…Mr. Bean) is a jewelry salesman who’s meticulous 
    gift-wrapping, and plays a key part in the movie, where he inadvertently prevents Harry from buying a necklace for Mia.

Now, there are two schools of thought as to the movie being popular and not being popular. Here are my thoughts.

The Popularity of "Love Actually"

"Love Actually" has achieved a cult-like status among its fans, particularly as a Christmas movie. What are some factors that contribute to this status:

1. Star-studded cast: The film boasts an impressive ensemble of British and international actors, including Hugh Grant, Emma Thompson, the late Alan Rickman, Liam Neeson, Colin Firth, and Keira Knightley. This star power attracts viewers and adds depth to the various storylines.
2. Intertwining narratives: The movie presents multiple love stories that weave together, creating a tapestry of relationships that viewers can relate to in different ways. This structure keeps the audience engaged and provides a variety of emotional experiences.
3. The ‘Feel-good’ factor: As a romantic comedy set during the holiday season, "Love Actually" taps into viewers' desire for warmth, hope, and happiness. The film's overall optimistic tone resonates with those seeking escapism and emotional uplift. For me this is where the rubber hits the road. It’s a ‘feel good’ movie. Nothing serious, but just plain fun. 
4. Memorable scenes and quotes: The movie contains several iconic moments that have become part of popular culture, such as Hugh Grant's dance sequence or Andrew Lincoln's cue card confession, and, my favorite, when Jamie (Colin Firth) flies to Portugal to share his love for Aurélia (Lúcia Moniz) at the restaurant where she is working. These scenes contribute to the film's rewatch value and quotability.
5. Seasonal appeal: Ok, I’m a sucker for a good holiday flick. Its Christmas setting has made "Love Actually" a holiday tradition for many, associating it with feelings of nostalgia and festivity.

Hugh Grant and Martine McCutcheon get caught. Courtesy of: IMDb

Ok, now let’s look at the other side of the coin here, and hear why some people give this movie a thumbs down. As I researched this information the following list seemed to be the overall consensus for aversion:

1. Fragmented Storytelling: The film’s multiple storylines can be seen as both a strength and a weakness. Some viewers find the constant switching between plots disjointed and feel it prevents the characters from being fully developed. Remember, it’s a comedy.
2. Clichéd and Unrealistic: Critics argue that some of the film’s scenarios are overly clichéd and unrealistic, leading to a sense of superficiality.
3. Problematic Elements: Certain storylines have been criticized for their problematic elements, such as the portrayal of infidelity, workplace relationships, and the objectification of women.
4. Predictability: The film’s adherence to romantic comedy clichés makes it predictable, which can be off-putting for those seeking more originality. Again, it’s a comedy.
5. Emotional Manipulation: Some viewers feel that the movie uses manipulative tactics to evoke an emotional response, relying heavily on the sentimental value of the Christmas setting.

"Love Actually" remains a polarizing film, beloved by many for its warmth, humor, and romantic optimism, while criticized by others for its idealized portrayals of love and problematic elements. Its enduring popularity can be attributed to its star-studded cast, multiple relatable storylines, and its ability to evoke strong emotions in viewers.

The movie's lasting impact lies in its exploration of love in its various forms and the lessons it imparts about human relationships. It encourages viewers to appreciate the different types of love in their lives, to be honest and vulnerable with their feelings, and to recognize the power of small gestures in making a difference.

Keira Knightly and Andrew Lincoln have their moment. Courtesy of IMDb

While it's important to approach the film with a critical eye and acknowledge its shortcomings, "Love Actually" continues to resonate with audiences by tapping into universal themes of love, connection, and the human experience. It serves as a reminder that despite life's complexities and challenges, love – in its many forms – is a fundamental aspect of the human condition.

Ultimately, whether one enjoys "Love Actually" or not, the discussions and reflections it provokes about love, relationships, and societal expectations can be valuable. The film's legacy lies not just in its entertainment value, but in its ability to spark conversations about the nature of love and human connections in the modern world.

What can we learn from this story? What's the takeaway?

As we navigate our own relationships and experiences, we can draw inspiration from the film's portrayal of love's transformative power while maintaining a realistic perspective on the complexities of human emotions and interactions. 

That said, I wish you a warm greeting for the upcoming holiday. Merry Christmas everyone!

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